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Singleness

26 October 2015 2 minutes read

Ah… singleness. That state of freedom that allows myself and my fellow unmarrieds to enjoy all the happiness and bliss of nieces and nephews, and then graciously hand them back to their parents when things get "stinky."

We can also enjoy tea parties with two-year-old nieces, consisting of empty cups somehow filled with "orange tea" that tastes like "watermelon," and then conveniently "have to get ready for work tomorrow" when the bedtime tears start.

Then there’s the freedom to simply do nothing. Outside of work, life proceeds on our own schedules at our own pace.

But it’s not always easy. Believe me. I want to be married one day and experience that stage of life, but in those quiet and sometimes lonely times that same "freedom" allows, the doubts and anxieties set in.

One of those anxieties that plagues me is the fear of one day being so intimately and lovingly linked with another human being… a human being that, one day, sooner or later, I’m going to irrevocably hurt.

Of course, I’m not planning on it, but I’ve been around just long enough to know that when you put two sinners together, arguments and hurts are sure to occur. While I pray it doesn’t happen, and I’m doing what I can to learn and grow so it won’t, I am terrified of having to look her in the eye after I’ve said or done something utterly stupid.

Humanly speaking, how can you love someone you know is going to hurt you again? But that’s the power of God’s forgiveness, isn’t it? As Christ was being nailed to the cross, God wasn’t just forgiving us for yelling, "Crucify Him!" He was seeing every "new" sin we would ever commit. God forgave us, knowing we would hurt Him again.

True forgiveness wipes the slate clean and looks at the wrongdoer with new eyes – eyes of love – that seeks the others good whether their reputation warrants it or not. Our upcoming speaker, Tom Zurowski, paints a powerful visual of this concept as he shares testimonies of forgiveness-in-action. Please join us on November 7th as we Rebuild Mercy on Foundations of Love.

By Aaron

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Cameroon News

Christians Trapped in the Midst of Conflict

Boko Haram members

As the West African nation of Cameroon faces conflict on two fronts, Christians are finding themselves trapped in the middle.

In northern Cameroon, the government has been fighting to stop the insurgence of Boko Haram terrorists who are moving south from Nigeria. In the process, members of the notorious group were raiding and pillaging villages throughout the area, forcing many Christians to flee for their lives. Numerous reports have been heard of pastors being attacked and killed by the militant Islamic group. Issues with Boko Haram also affect other neighbouring countries, including Chad and Niger.

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Boko Haram Terrorists Set Buildings Ablaze

Internally displaced children in
Cameroon's Far North Region.
Photo: World Watch Monitor

Residents of Roum village, in the Far North Region of Cameroon, were abruptly awoken on the night of January 16th as blazing fires engulfed two churches and numerous homes in their village community. Boko Haram militants, who had stormed the village late that night, has claimed responsibility for the attack, in which four villagers were killed.

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Boko Haram Attacks Involving Children

Boko Haram has used children as suicide bombers in northeast Nigeria.
Photo: World Watch Monitor

After a period of relative calm, the Far North region of Cameroon, along the Nigerian border, has witnessed an upsurge of attacks by Boko Haram. On August 17th, a church elder was killed in a night raid carried out by the militant Islamic group on Moskota village. Adamu Nguda, formerly a church elder in Mouldougwa, had been previously displaced to live as an "internally displaced person" in Moskota. Adamu's killers also kidnapped his six children -- who are between the ages of three and 15 -- leaving his wife behind in a state of total shock.

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Increased Violence Against Christians

Two Christian brothers, Ushahemba and Sughter Kumashenge, were ambushed and killed by Fulani militants on Saturday, August 22nd. The incident occurred on their farm in Taraba state, lending to concerns that militants in Nigeria's middle belt -- consisting of Kaduna, Taraba, Benue and Nasarawa states -- are joining forces with jihadists for the specific purpose of driving out Christians.

Over the summer, the violent attacks had intensified throughout northern Nigeria and its neighbouring country of Cameroon, causing some Christians in affected areas to refrain from attending church. On Saturday, July 25th, a 12-year-old girl detonated a suicide bomb within a crowded area in Maroua, northern Cameroon, killing 20 people and injuring 79 others. The following Friday, July 31st, six people died and eleven were injured in a massive bomb explosion at a market in Maiduguri, Nigeria -- the traditional heartland of the Nigerian violence.

Churches in Cameroon are presently struggling to contain the influx of approximately 60,000 Nigerian refugees and thousands of internally displaced persons (IDPs). "The level of attendance has also fallen in various churches," explains Rev. Samuel Heteck, President of the Protestant Churches' Council in Northern Cameroon. "We have observed a lack of concentration among some worshippers during recent services as their ears remain attentive to any movement outside."

Nigerian President Muhammadu Buhari visited Cameroon at the end of July in order to bolster collaborative efforts against the notorious Boko Haram terrorist group. Fortunately, the Nigerian military reported on August 2nd that they had rescued 178 people, including 101 children, all of whom had been taken captive by Boko Haram in the Nigerian state of Borno. To learn more about persecution in Nigeria, click here.

In the aftermath of recent attacks, we ask the Lord to minister healing to all who were injured and provide comfort to those who are now mourning the loss of loved ones. May He also calm the violence in these affected regions and alleviate mounting fears. As religious and political leaders make difficult decisions in their efforts to resolve the country's crisis, pray for God to grant them wisdom and clear direction so that all those whom they govern may be able to live "peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness" (1 Timothy 2:2).

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